Is it possible to have arrived without realizing it?

We used to travel through rural villages which reminded us of our childhood. We feel kids living in the cities and large towns lose out on what we used to have. Maybe we are right, maybe not. But I know many senior citizens yearning for the quiet life in the country. Some who can afford, actually bought a few acres to do some farming as a form of relaxation. Most would give up after some time, realizing they are not as fit as they used to be, or they think they are.

I have heard of rich and successful men and women lamenting about their having missed their kids' growing up years, or their poor health, because of their stressful careers.

Is it possible that people can be really happy with free and easy way of life, without having to go through the process of having made it, in terms of financial success, first? The following story is worth a repeat, for the benefit of those who have missed it:

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village.

A tourist complimented the local fishermen on the quality of their fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long." they answered in unison.

"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"

The fishermen explained that their small catches were sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.

"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children, and take siestas with our wives. In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs. We have a full life."

The tourist interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you!

You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant.

You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City , Los Angeles , or even New York City!

From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting, answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."

“That’s what I am doing now” Replied the fisherman

And the moral of this story is: Know where you're going in life... you may already be there!

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